I had a friend who once said, "My husband and I don't have anything in common, not like you and Birch do." I almost laughed, because I think we all go through phases where we wonder "How in the world did we ever get married?"
Birch and I do have some similar interests but usually do them separately. We both like to exercise, but he requires a ball and a competition; I prefer being alone outside on a run. We both like to read but I usually have a novel or parenting book while he is always reading the news.
For Christmas Birch got me a cookbook,
The Bread Baker's Apprentice. It's another one of those gifts that's for "me" but also for him. This baker has bread baking down to a science and the book reads kind of like a textbook. I decided that's why I'm not a big fan--it takes all of the emotion out of bread-making. Sounds silly but I love making my mom's recipe for rolls or a loaf of bread that a friend shared with me.

But....this book has given us a new hobby to do together so I'll take it. We've made some tasty English muffins and this amazing Sicilian bread. I didn't take a picture but it looked pretty close to the bread below:

Birch is doing an at-home reading elective for school right now so it's given us a little more time for baking. We're also trying to plan a vacation for just the two of us after he graduates, probably a cruise.
What do you and your husband do together? I know some of you are really good about spending time together and others are probably more like us, taking any little thing that you might have in common after being married a few years. Tonight it was Chex Muddy Buddies--yum! But is there anyone who doesn't like those?